"We are starting the 16 days activism in Mushin as we move to other communities in Lagos state to speak to our women on the issue of gender violence, their right as a woman and why it should be kicked against, making sure that women are not subjected to any forms of violence." She added.
The association comprises Lawyers who own individual law firms that provide legal services to clients but as an organization of Women Lawyers Association, they give the service free of charge for women who are violated in any form either old or young ones, also mediate with the family because it is not all violation leads to court except on rape issues, reaffirming that on no ground should a woman be raped. When a woman says no it has to be respected.
Mrs. Vivian Aloba, General Secretary, Nigeria Chapter of the association, explained that what is wrong is wrong and what is bad is bad. "There is no reason to commit a crime against your fellow human and claim. she causes it due to her choice of dress, It is wrong and we should disagree with people who hide under such excuse to commit rape". Responding to the level of indecent dressing among today's female fold which some people claimed is the cause of rape.
She added, "as a man you are expected to have self-control, no one is supporting indecent dress but it shouldn't be an excuse, it is not the cloth the lady wears, that cause most rape but it is the desire to satisfy their urge against the person and take advantage of the dress,".
The women in attendance were lectured on gender-based violence, what to do and where they can get help, that the association considers the emotional stability of the children involved which they try as much as possible to build the home because they don't encourage broken home but if there is need to intervene legally, they do.
Mushines News gathered that the rise in the number of cases we're as a result of the advocacy like this, more women and girls are talking about it and cases are gaining media attention unlike before that everything is done in family affairs and silence most of the victims, and they keep telling people who still believe that it should be a family affair that we can not build a better nation when we keep battering our mothers and rapping our girls, without letting the perpetrator face the consequence but now people are talking and are scare of doing it because the offender picture and data will be published, creating discussion and activities because there is need to discourage that act of covering violence against women.
"No one wants to break a family, am a good Christian and I want the family to grow stronger which is why we do mediation between the family members, to reconcile the difference and make the husband a better person, what we want is a better home for our mothers and girls to live and thrive." She concluded
The APC Women Leader of Mushin Chapter, Mrs Muinat Mustapha also advised the women to take all the information given to them on tender violence and relate it with their fellow women in their various areas so that other women in the community can benefit from the services the association renders
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